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_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>第一、纳彩:即是提亲,指_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>男方_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>家庭请媒_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>人_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>带着礼物到女方家见_blank class=infotextkey>面,表达与_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>对方缔_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>结婚姻的请求。
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_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>第三、纳吉:是婚嫁的_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>第三步,即是_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“纳取吉利_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”之意。在_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>我国_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>传统的婚姻,是以_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>父母之命,媒妁之言_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”为依据,问名之后,_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>双方各自_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>通过各种_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>方式,考察_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>双方缔_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>结婚姻的_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>可能性。_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>这些_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>活动叫做_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“婚前_blank class=infotextkey>合婚_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”,也就
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_blank class=infotextkey>第四、纳征:纳征也_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>称为_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“纳成_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”、_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>大聘_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”等,_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>就是_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>男方_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>需要向女方_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>家里送彩礼,只_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>有接_blank class=infotextkey>收彩礼后_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>男方才可娶女方。所以,_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>中国_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>传统婚姻被称之_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>买卖婚姻_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”。
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三、忌于鬼月农历七月完婚。
四、床位安好后至_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>新婚夜前夕,准_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>新郎忌_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>一个_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>人独睡_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>新床,.fan_blank class=infotextkey>g558.com/shajin_blank class=infotextkey>g/ tar_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>沙井_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>小_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>产权_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>房_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>出售,如无可避免,.fan_blank class=infotextkey>g558.com/_blank class=infotextkey>guanlan/ tar_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>观澜景田名苑二期,可找_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>一位_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>大生肖(如肖_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>龙)及未成_blank class=infotextkey>年的_blank class=infotextkey>男童陪睡。
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六、订婚之文_blank class=infotextkey>定喜宴完毕后,_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>双方都_blank class=infotextkey>不_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>可以说_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>再见,_blank class=infotextkey>否则_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>会_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>有_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>再婚的_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>意思。
七、_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>新娘_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>子_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>结婚当天所穿的_blank class=infotextkey>礼服忌_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>有袋口,以免带走娘家财运。
_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>八、_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>新娘_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>子离开娘家_blank class=infotextkey>时,哭得愈_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>厉害愈好,取_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“哭发哭发,_blank class=infotextkey>不哭_blank class=infotextkey>不发_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”的_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>意思。
九、_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>结婚当天,_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>新娘_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>子出门_blank class=infotextkey>时,姑嫂均要_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>回避,_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>_blank class=infotextkey>不能相送;因为_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“姑_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”跟_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“孤_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”同音,而_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“嫂_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”跟_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>“扫_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>”同音,_blank class=infotextkey>get=_blank class=infotextkey>都是_blank class=infotextkey>不吉利的词汇。
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